Doing less accomplishes more
When your goals are so spread out into different areas of your life, you simply do not have enough time or energy to reach them all. You halfheartedly accomplish a few, but the momentum doesn’t pick up because you’re not making real progress.
Radical reinvention shocks the system
You change your life one piece at a time. Anything less thrusts you so far from your comfort zone, you start to panic. I call this “adjustment shock.” Anything new — no matter how good — is uncomfortable until it is also familiar. That is why we have to lean into new ambitions slowly, until they become a natural part of our everyday lives.
You’ll figure out what you really care about
Despite what culture would have you believe, you’re not here to be everything. You do not have to master every single aspect of your life, and feeling pressured to even pretend that you want to is robbing you of your energy to affect change where it really matters. Get crystal clear on exactly what you want and what you care enough about — that passion will help motivate you in the months to come.
Your goals need a hint of realism
A list of huge goals that are so far off from where you are right now seems intimidating. Three goals, even if they are big ones, seems more fathomable.
You can always make adjustments
Your 2020 goals might be accomplished by March. That is a totally possible thing to have happen. It’s not that you’re only aspiring to do 3 things total this year, it’s that you’re focusing on these 3 until they are mastered, and you can be onto the next thing.
Growth is not an isolated event
When you improve one part of your life, it tends to touch everything else. When you raise your standards in one way, everything else has to rise to meet it. Growth is interesting in this way: often when we focus completely on changing one thing, we inadvertently create a ripple effect in which we are naturally motivated to change others, too.
Choosing less than a handful of goals for the new decade doesn’t mean you’re diluting your ambition. In fact, quite the opposite. You’re getting focused and crystal clear on what you want to do, and funneling your energy toward creating real, and lasting, impact.
When, in the course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bonds which have connected them with another, and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the laws of nature and of nature’s God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.
Check the answer on Learning Unlimited Tutoring’s Facebook page
A hare was continually poking fun at a tortoise because of the slowness of his pace. The tortoise tried not to be annoyed by the jeers of the hare, but one day in the presence of the other animals he was goaded into challenging the hare to a foot race.
“Why, this is a joke,” said the hare. You know that I can run circles around you.” “Enough of your boasting,” said the tortoise. “Let’s get on with the race.”
The fox was made the supervisor, and the lion the judge. There was a starting point and a point marking the end, fixed by the fox. Both the competitors started their race at the same time. The hare ran faster. He was naturally much ahead of the tortoise.
Now on his way the hare wanted to take a little rest under a tree, because he was sure of his win. And he soon felt asleep.
On the other hand, the tortoise moved slowly but steadily without any rest. He reached the destination before the hare arrived. When the hare awoke with a start, it was too late to save the race. Much ashamed, he crept away while all the animals at the finish line acclaimed the winner.
Moral: Slow and steady wins the race.
Then he took another pebble and dropped it into the
The greatest achievement of the human spirit is to live up to one’s
opportunities, and to make the most of one’s resources.
— Luc de Clapiers, Marquis de Vauvenargues (1715-1747) French Essayist